Question: My boyfriend sends me sexy texts and talks dirty all the time. I’ve never met anyone like him before.
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Dear Maura: My parents are very dependent on me and are worried that my boyfriend is going to take up a lot of my time. It’s just the three of us. I’m 26 and still live with them. They had me late in life and are both now …
Dear Maura: I’m going from a very active sex life to a normal one, whatever that is, because I think my relationship is all about sex at the moment and I don’t want that.
Question: I was fine about my break up with my girlfriend but now she’s with someone else it’s a different story. I keep thinking of her with this other guy and it’s driving me mad.
Dear Denise: It’s usually a male problem but I orgasm really quickly.
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Dear Denise: I have developed an addiction to sex toys, leather corsets, g-strings, whips and anything to do with sex.
Dear Maura: My partner is paying his ex a lot of attention. They’ve a son and I get that he needs to see him, which he does regularly, but he worries about her.
Question: I am never turned on at the right time.
Dear Denise: I have a huge appetite for sex and good kissing. I hate a man who is not a good kisser or can’t keep up. The problem is that I am sick of toyboys.
Dear Denise: I am married a year and life was good. We had a great sex life and my husband is easy going – a trait I don’t take for granted. All his family are so nice. I couldn’t believe my luck.
Dear Denise: I think I only ever enjoyed oral sex once in my life.
Dear Maura: My girlfriend coaches me during sex and it’s really pissing me off. This has been going on for a few months.
Dear Maura: An engagement is supposed to be a very happy time but for me it’s turned out to be a nightmare. I’m not ready to get engaged, not yet.
Dear Denise: I have always enjoyed sex in tight spaces. It makes for some really sexy positions and some good giggles too.
Dear Denise: My girlfriend says she doesn’t want to be with me anymore and obviously that hurts. I guess we were getting boring and doing the same thing, week in and week out, but I was happy. She is beautiful.
Dear Maura: I had sex with a guy fifteen years younger than me at a work event and I wasn’t even drunk. I’m 42 and he’s in his late twenties.
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Dear Denise: My best friend is a redhead and men fall over me - to talk to her.
Dear Denise: My new girlfriend never stops yapping but in the bedroom she’s way too quiet.
Dear Denise: After a messy breakup, I have decided to go off sex for a year. I go from relationship to relationship, and never spend any time with myself. My flatmate has just moved out and the landlady is selling up so …
Dear Denise: I’m living in Galway and I am home to Dublin for two weeks at Christmas, back in my old room, which is still pink with my old duvet and pictures.
Dear Denise: My boyfriend wants to have sex in a cubicle of a bathroom and pretend we have only just met.
Dear Maura: I’m ready to get married but my older sister is holding me to a promise that she goes first. I’m engaged 16 months and would love to start planning my wedding, but she goes mad if I say anything about it.
Dear Denise: I want my husband (62) to spank me, but I want him to tell me he loves me as he does it. I don’t want him to tell me I am bold. He is a grumpy old sod and he tells me that I am bold plenty. I just want to try …
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Dear Denise: My new lover is 10 years younger than me and he knows I have no clue about sex.
Dear Denise: Last summer I (36) was woken up early one morning by the sound of Sunday morning intercourse next door. Not just from the woman — which I was enjoying — but from her man too, and slap, slap, slap sounds …
Dear Denise: My new partner is all about the rear entry position. I fancy him so much but I am not so sure that this is what I want all of the time. Is he not interested in my breasts?
Dear Denise: I have a fantasy about a sex party that I want to make a reality. I know it’s not going to be as good as my fantasy — but it could be better.
Dear Denise: My lover is really good fun, he’s kind and listens to me. The problem is that he (37) loves watching porn on his phone when we make love.
Dear Grace: I (40) have been married to a beautiful woman (38) for 10 years, and we have two kids. Since she has given birth and her body has naturally changed,
Dear Audrey: I’m (30) with this girl (28) a few months and I’m starting to think she’s a bit of a ‘pillow princess’. When we have sex — and I use the term ‘we’ quite loosely as I do all the heavy lifting — she just lies back. I give her oral, but …
Dear Audrey,
Dear Audrey: I (40) have been chatting with this guy (42) on a dating app for about a month and we get on really well.
Dear Audrey: I’m (40) in a same-sex relationship with my partner (38).